Hi, I live in California (Idaho, Florida, Arkansas etc.) and I am 20 (30, 25, 80 etc) and I weigh 200 (100, 250, 350 etc) and I am a baby girl, but I am having a hard time finding a daddy. Can you help? Or How to Find a Daddy Dom?
Anyone can be a baby girl
The first element of this question is designed to ensure that being in a specific location, age and size (and sometimes race or culture) can be a baby girl. The answer to this implied question is, YES, OF COURSE! Anyone can be an adult little, or submissive in a relationship, and no your dominant doesn’t have to be older than you. Though sometimes that is appealing, that is a personal decision.
There seems to be general concern form women that are overweight or “bigger.” It is important for you to be confident in yourself and really make sure that you are looking for a dominant/submissive relationship, not to hide insecurity, but to embrace your confidence.
How can I find a Daddy Dom?
The second element of this question is a bit more difficult question to answer. There are numerous ways to find a daddy, and they all vary based on risk and lifestyle acceptance. While this explanation may be a bit stereotypical, and no doubt some of you will take exception to this, we want this world to be SAFE. Our preference is to grow into dominant/submissive relationships How to give the ok to your daddy dom partner, than for people who are vulnerable and quick to give submission into an abusive relationship.
There are a number of dating websites out there from general relationship and dating sites, to others that further embrace kinkier relationships. Sometimes people will use community boards that support specific types of relationships as a springboard to relationships. The truth is generally, you will find better more long term relationships at established websites which has less risk (though all dating is risky) and sites that focus on dominant/submissive relationships are more likely to provide relationships in the lifestyle, their is an increase in risk of predatory behavior or at least relationships based on these elements of a relationship than a well rounded relationship.
That being said, there are keys or indicators in reputable dating sites that may lead you towards people who are open to different lifestyles. You are not likely to see, “Daddy Dom” or “Dom/Sub relationship Preferred” in the bios or in communication. You may see things like, “adventurous” or “open-minded.” You may also get some indication by asking a few questions like, “If I am indecisive will you make a decision or will you give me time to make it on my own?” If you meet, or communicate online or by phone you can get a sense of their personality and then you can go from there. Just remember, Dominants are looking for Subs and that can be just as difficult, be honest but do not put yourself in a situation where you can be taken advantage of.
First Step Develop Trust
All relationship advice starts with developing trust. Be wary of the person who starts off the conversation, “Hey I am a dominant and need a slave.” These types of relationships develop over time and are based on respect. A dominant will not respect a slave that comes into the relationship that way (usually).
Get to know each other, and develop an authentic relationship.
As things progress you can share additional fantasies, role playing options.
As the relationship grows you can develop a true dominant/submissive relationship built on your very specific ground rules.
Hopefully this will help you on your quest to find a daddy dom.
dagwanoenyent – Many thanks